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Cleaning Up so-called Spirituality
The job I have ahead of me is going to be very hard with plenty of nastiness and spite thrown in my direction and yet I still know I have to do it. I have questioned why I am doing this and persevering when so much is being thrown at me from allegedly spiritual people, but I can’t stop it; it’s as though I’m being driven and I suppose I am. The problem is the total lack of spirituality in the majority who call themselves spiritual beings. They are ready to attack, belittle, decry and discredit anyone who doesn’t agree with them.
Talk of wealth, greatness and self is what I hear of so much now. Where is the talk of wanting to serve others, which is what this is meant to be about? Where is the talk of hoping they can do the gifts justice by serving well? Instead, all we hear talk of is, ‘I am going to be the best’, I will have great wealth’, ‘I am …’
Everything is ‘I am’ or ‘me’. A comment was made on my blog on the questions page. I have been asked to remove it because they didn’t like my answer to them. I was told in a private message that I am rude, not at all spiritual (because I’m not a spiritualist) and I am fake because I have a donations button (rather than charging huge fees like the rest do) and that they have no idea why anyone follows me.
The person in question may well be a lovely person and very honest and true in what she does, (and I think she is) but, the wording of the question worried me as this is what we are told to watch for when being deceived by lower energy spirits; talk of great wealth to come, huge success and a feeling of great euphoria with no talk at all of, ’I hope I can serve well and help people’. I worry this girl is being deceived, but I hope she isn’t and I wish her well on her path.
The problems arise when I turn away people not at all suitable for the closed Group of Sensitives. We are the only group for natural mediums so why do so many spiritualists suddenly want to join us when they have lots of groups already out there for them and their beliefs? We have some spiritualists in our group as you know, Kevin is one of them and he is a lovely chap who is always respectful and supportive of what we’re doing – as we are with him. There are others on there too, but the ones who are starting to want to join us for some reason are the ones who don’t believe in anything we say, do or are and who are trying to cause upset and discord before they are even accepted.
I am aware many of them want to come in and disrupt things (some have already) just because they dislike what I’m doing. This in itself shows us all what the spiritualist movement has become thanks to them accepting just anyone into their fold now and for having teachers who are seen and heard to be spouting anti Christian propaganda and general intolerance of others with different beliefs to their own.
All their spite, nastiness, self-centred me, me, me attitude is doing is making me even more determined to be heard and to have this stopped or at least recognised. The spiritualist movement used to be a decent place for people to go to who wanted to try to develop and they do have some excellent mediums within their fold, but it is fast losing that reputation by allowing all this bad behaviour that’s crept in mostly because of their teachers. I now have no respect for them as a whole and yet I know there are some very good people within their fold; super mediums who mean well, are humble and who only wish to serve others – these people deserve to have the trash thrown out of the back door and the clutter cleared out.
It is time the proper mediums – whatever path they are on – were allowed to work properly and without this nastiness or mediocrity that is being seen sweeping through everywhere today. It is time anyone heard to be preaching propaganda, religious hatred, or any other thing against another person was slammed down on, but until the various churches get rid of their bias towards others they will just continue to encourage this dreadful behaviour and bring themselves down by their own lack of morals, ethics or standards.
NB: On Monday 20th February I will be at the DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Bristol South – Cadbury House doing a talk. Entrance is FREE and it is 7 for 7.30pm. The talk will be about the differences between man-made or forced mediums and natural mediums and healers. It will be followed by a question and answer session and I am hoping as many of you as possible will be able to come so we can meet up, but if you are unable, please could I ask you to advertise the event on your blogs, wall posts or anywhere you think might help.
Three Stages of Natural Mediumship – part 2
Today we carry on with natural development and talking about what to expect and what you should do. We heard about the weird goings on that happen to us and now we need to know what to do about it. There is nowhere for us to go. All the groups are for new age or spiritualist teachings that are totally unsuited for natural ability and most don’t even recognise there is such a thing so what do we do and where do we go from here? We don’t. Ignore all you’ve heard about rituals and the need for protection – that is all for people forcing the gifts and not for those born with them. Nothing bad can happen to you despite what they say as you aren’t messing with the same low energies they are so that’s the first thing to stop worrying about.
The second thing is stop worrying about what you’re meant to do. You will be shown. To explain how it can happen, I’ll tell you how it happened to me. I had agreed to work with them as I was told this would stop all the extra weird things happening (like tv’s switching off and on when not plugged in), but after agreeing – nothing happened. The weirdness stopped, but so did everything else. Everything went quiet and I wasn’t sure what to do so I started trying to force it because I thought I was meant to be doing something. I tried healing and it worked brilliantly, but I couldn’t understand why they weren’t bashing down my door when I was offering it for free and people were spreading the word about me. I also did the ‘readings’ thing for a bit and that too was similar – drips and drabs but nothing that satisfied me as it didn’t feel right. So why on earth had they been hounding me and doing all sorts of strange things just to stop it all once I agreed to work with them? It was daft, very annoying and frustrating as I had no idea what I could be doing wrong.
It turned out I wasn’t doing anything wrong. I know now it was because it wasn’t my time to work. They had taught me all I needed to know, got me to agree I’d work with them and their job was done – for now! They sat back until they were told to put me to work and expected me to do the same only forgot to tell me that’s what came next. The call to work came in a way and at a time I least expected and without me realising it had even happened. I had a series of operations that laid me low and left me very ill two years ago and it was during my convalescence when I was bored out of my skull that my first book was penned. I had no intention of writing one and it happened by chance.
I tell more of that in my autobiography (written but not yet published) so won’t bore you with all the details here. Before I knew it, I had written a full book and published it and in just two years since that first operation, I have now written 6 books – with 4 published and one about to be. I have blogs for spiritual work and for promoting authors worldwide and appear to have become a teacher and spiritual advisor to people all over the world as well. How on earth did that happen when I never planned any of it and so quickly?
So you see, you don’t need classes, workshops or anything else to help you. All you need is patience. Once you tell them you’ll work with them, they’ll get you up and running when the time is right. When it is that time watch how it happens really fast. Try to force it and they’ll block you if it isn’t the way you’re meant to do it or if the timing is wrong. Start something else where doors open easily and you move forward and you’ve gone the way they guided you. This will continue through the rest of your life and all you need do is let them guide you each step of the way. You don’t need to do a thing until they make you and it will happen so naturally – as it did with me – that you won’t even realise you’ve started until one day you find you’re busy all the time and never noticed when or how it happened.
Things can change over the years and you will continue to learn every day of your life. I might advise and help people, but they in turn often help me or teach me something new as well. My awareness levels have been jumping up and up at a rate of knots and I don’t think they have any intention of stopping me where I am now either. What is to follow?- I have no idea, but I do know all I have to do is wait and when the time is right they’ll lead me and I’ll just have to follow. That’s all you need to do as well. You will find the right people come into your life when you need a lesson or to be moved forward and they will often leave again once that lesson or help has been given. This will continue from now on, so don’t worry about it just go with the flow and start learning to trust your spirit helpers to start you working when they are told to. After all, you have a long relationship ahead of you working together and you’ll need to trust them, so you might as well put that into action now then sit back, wait, relax and enjoy the journey.
I am possibly going to be staying at a hotel in or around Weston Super Mare on 19th, 20th and 21st of February and wondered if anyone would like to come and meet up. We could maybe get a group together and have lunch or dinner maybe or even just coffee together.
MY BOOKS
A Guide’s Guide to Mediumship and Healing
How To Know If You’re a Medium
A Sceptical Medium






