Can Anyone be a Medium or Psychic?

It depends what you mean by that. Yes, we are all psychic anyway, but no, you can’t all be mediums unless you want to take the risk of working with low energies. Natural mediums are born as are psychics. Anyone needing to go to years of classes and workshops to learn to try to have any connection with the spirit world is not a natural medium even though they say they are.

Natural mediums are born having things happen to them all their lives. If they go to workshops run by other natural mediums they will have those experiences recognised, talked about and b given help to understand what is happening to them. They will also be shown how to listen to their spirit helpers and guides who are the only teachers in this subject. Man cannot teach anyone to be a medium, they can only help you to understand what you are being told or shown.

Psychics never contact the spirit world despite most man made mediums saying they can – they can’t. Psychic work is pure energy, mediumship is a mix of energy but mainly spirit. If people are born with it all happening naturally, they deal with only the highest level of spirit activity and guides, those who force it are often dealing with things that can deceive and cause mischief and upset, which is why so many will tell you stories of things they have experienced and will impress upon you the need for fancy protection rituals that mean nothing.

Every person walks their own path and they all have their own ideas and beliefs which is what makes the world go around. Sadly, the people who have to force themselves to try and learn to be mediums have no realisation that isn’t how all people have to do it though. They believe as they can force it and get certain results, this is what all people have to do and they call this being natural mediums and say all people are born with it. That is very wrong. It is because they haven’t had natural experiences and have no understanding of them that they don’t recognise there are many people throughout the world who have everything happen naturally and who don’t have to do what they do to get results.

Sensitives are born and not made. Sensitives can be mediums and healers and they can be many other things too – we are not restricted to only doing readings. Sensitives who are not naturally gifted with mediumship are people who are very spiritual in their lives without the need to force things they know not to mess with. They serve mankind, animals and the world we live in in other ways and are happy to do so. We can’t all be the same and do the same as each other so why are so many trying to be?

Learn to find what your own gifts are and develop and use them to the best of your ability without feeling you need to take someone else’s as your own. By doing that, you are devaluing yourself and your own abilities by thinking you are not special or important enough unless you do something you admire or see in others and want to have for yourself. Stand up for you and who you are. Don’t feel you are a lesser person because you don’t have another person’s gifts you might yearn after. Seek within to find your own and you will become a more satisfied and whole person because you did. While you live your life only ever seeking and yearning for those gifts given to another, you will continue to search for many years and never find true peace or happiness.

Be true to yourself, cherish the gifts God chose especially for you in His wisdom and nurture them, work on them and make yourself the person He wanted you to be, not the person you think you want or think you should be. Only by doing this will you find your true self. By copying another person you are living their life rather than your own and this is why you continue for many years searching, seeking and never finding what it is you’re after. You are special, give yourself permission to believe that and start living your life from today and not someone else’s.

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Blair – A Bridge between Two Worlds

A Bridge between Two Worlds

I recently had a brief period of doubt concerning what my role is in the application of my healing gift. Strangely, it came while reading the book titled The Teachings of Silver Birch. Silver Birch is a 3,000 year old spirit who provided extensive teachings through a medium back in the 1930′s. It is a wonderful uplifting book, and answered most of my questions about the spirit world, and how things work.

The primary take home message that I got from the book was “service, service, service.” What this means is that our primary purpose and goal in life is meant to be service to our fellow man. It is through unselfish service helping others that our soul/spirit develops and progresses to higher levels. In other words, the meaning or purpose of life is service. Our passion for service comes from our love and compassion for others.

If we could all embrace and consistently practice this one thing, life would be very simple, happiness would abound, and the rewards many in this life and the next. Those in spirit also serve by helping those living in our world, and that is one way they continue to progress as well.

I found this to be a very simple concept and mission. As I worked my way through the book, it seemed that there was a lot of talk about how those in the spirit world serve mankind through instruments such as me. That is all fine and good, but it made me start to wonder about the nature of the symbiotic relationship we have with our spirit helpers. Is the symbiosis equally beneficial to both the living instrument and the spirit helper, or is it primarily a means by which those in spirit give service for their own progression?

Is the living person simply a dumb instrument that passively provides a channel for the service done by spirit? In this scenario, the human instrument could be likened to a computer and keyboard used to write a book. The computer serves purely as a passive instrument through which the writer expresses his thoughts in written form. It does not participate in the creation of ideas; it only conveys them to the computer screen. As such the computer receives no benefit, and neither should it.

This notion bothered me a bit, because I want to actively participate in service to mankind. So what is the nature of my relationship with my spirit helpers?

In grappling with this question, the first thing I did was make it clear to my spirit helpers that I want to have an active role in the work we do together. While I am happy to provide an instrument through which they can serve, I want to be an active participant in service to mankind.

Next I tried to identify what our respective roles might be in the healing process. As all of us say who have the healing gift, we do not heal; rather we are instruments through which God heals. I believe that to be true. At the same time, my spirit helpers are also instruments of God’s healing, since only God has that power. Presumably He gives some of that power to them, as we are told that spirit actually carries out the healing.

So what is the instrument’s role? First, we are more than a physical body; we are spirits too. Consequently, it is likely that we bring some of the power of our own spirit to bear in the healing process.

Second, since we have free will, we must agree to work with spirit in this way. Having agreed to serve as an instrument, we must decide to actually use our gift to give healing to others. If we do not offer and bring healing to others, then neither we nor spirit have served.

Another aspect is the extent to which we decide to use our gift to serve mankind. Do we decide to apply our gift to only a select few in our inner circle of friends and family, or do we offer it to a wide variety of people that we meet or who come to us for help? Here again we can exercise our free will to some extent.

Another dimension of the service we provide is to make the sublime and abstract nature of God a reality in people’s lives. We do this not only through the healing that we bring, but also through the words of comfort and hope we share with the recipient. When we do our work it should become clear to the recipient that there is indeed something larger and more powerful than ourselves.

Lastly, we demonstrate by example the power of love and compassion which makes it possible for us to bring healing to others. Hopefully, our example and the gift of healing that they receive from us will inspire them to serve in their own way to help their fellow man.

Having gone through this thought process, I have come to the conclusion that we are not passive instruments used for service by spirit. Rather, our work with spirit is a true collaboration and partnership where each brings to bear their unique abilities, and their shared passion for service to help others creates a bridge between two worlds.

That bridge extends beyond those with spiritual gifts. Spirit will come to the aid of anyone who wishes to help and serve their fellow man in myriad other ways. They will open doors for you to facilitate whatever service you wish to provide. Helping others is so fulfilling, and really is the key to happiness.

There is no better life to be lived than one of selfless service to others, and none more rewarding.

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