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How to ‘Unlearn’ Spiritualist Teachings

Most people born with the gifts of mediumship or healing naturally are called Sensitives. By calling themselves by that name, they help others to know they are real mediums and healers, God’s chosen them and this makes them especially gifted – they are not man taught, they are God or spirit taught. Now, the problems come for Sensitives when they get to the stage of realising everything that’s happening to them is getting confusing and they don’t know what to do about it all. What started off through their earlier years was bits and pieces here and there, but now, things are getting far more intense and they don’t know what to do or where to go for help.

So what happens? They mostly go off to their local spiritualist church or other spiritual development groups that people have set up – and there are loads of them – and sit in open circles or similar hoping to get some help or understanding of what they’re meant to do next. This is where their real problems often really do start.

You see, these places are all geared up for man made teachings and are being taught by man made mediums and healers. It is very rare anyone there will even know what a natural medium (Sensitive) is. The things taught are so wrong for sensitive and their gifts are pushed back and denied as they have to go back to basics that they probably experienced as little children. No one understands they already know all of this and sometimes, the leaders of the groups can get quite shirty with them as they think they’re showing off. They aren’t they just need help and far more than anyone else there.

All natural mediums and healers reading this should leave every class, workshop or group you might be attending right now that is taken by man made mediums. Go home and unlearn everything they’ve ever taught you, because it isn’t for you. You don’t need symbols, to uncross your legs, arms or anything else. All you need to do is sit in the quiet each day (no, not meditate), just sit quietly. Tell your spirit helpers you are now ready to work with them but that you will only work with the highest there are and all others can get lost as you’ll just ignore them.

You then ask them to guide you on your path and to help show you which way they want you to work. They will then start putting the right people (individuals) in your path who will help with various stages of your natural development. They will also guide you to find places such as this where you’ll get help. The only thing you need to remember in all this is, it will happen when it is meant to, not when you want it to. You were chosen to work in this field, that’s why it all happened naturally to you up till now, so why do you think it won’t keep happening naturally? Patience is the key word, as your full development will happen when God decides, not man.

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Open Circles Should Not Mistaken for Real Mediumship

The other day someone made a remark about me having learnt mediumship in an open circle.I have never been to a class to learn mediumship in my life as the spirit world taught me and open circles have nothing at all to do with learning about mediumship anyway. I don’t like open circles, never have and never will. I have attended them in the past (hence I know what they’re like), tried running one myself recently for those who wanted it (as you know) and it was awful. I stopped it and closed it down within a month. They do nothing but harbour low energies most of the time and are places where those who often have no natural ability at all go and where the so-called mediums pretend everyone attending are all doing very well regardless of what is said or done.

Each to their own and all that, but if we’re talking real natural mediumship here – and that’s all I ever wish to encourage or help with – then they are a total waste of time. I have sat in circles where people come out with all sorts of imagined rubbish and the medium taking the circle allows it.  A good medium would never allow that in their circle open or closed. What is that behaviour all about and what is the point of it all? When I did my circle for the month recently, if they came out with rubbish I told them honestly that what they were giving was from their imagination. I also told those who had no natural ability they didn’t and told them the pitfalls of messing with something they didn’t understand and the dangers involved with it all.

I am honest and that’s why some people don’t like me and what I teach. They don’t want honesty, they want me to lie and pretend they can do it to the same standards as a born medium because taught mediums tell them they can. Because there are so many taught mediums, they think all mediumship is of the same level and standard and if a natural medium tries to explain the differences between natural mediumship and forced, they get angry, nasty and spiteful. This is proof on its own that what they do does not come from the highest place or they would listen to what is said and understand what is meant. They choose not to as they don’t want to acknowledge the truth.

Why are so many people having open circles and encouraging this daft behaviour? It is because so many people want to sit in an environment where other like minded people are and this is fine if all you are doing is sitting in the quiet, enjoying the atmosphere, talking about spiritual matters and no more. How nice that people want to try to become more spiritually minded. When they start trying to call up spirits though (which no one should ever do) this is when the problems can arise. If spirit activity happens naturally, that is fine, but they should never be ‘called up’ and no one should ever be encouraged to try to do this as that’s when the low energy spirits can come forth and deceive. It is this that often happens in open circles. Not always, but often.

The only way anyone will develop their natural gifts is in development groups or on one to one teaching and help from a natural medium – never from an open circle. Let’s face it, we as people don’t teach anyway, the spirit world do the teaching. All we do is help show people how to listen to them and how to work with their own spirit helpers and this is never done in a circle and never should be as it is totally the wrong environment. Those holding circles are not teaching anything, they are just sitting and allowing you to sit with them in the peace and if anything happens naturally fine – if not, it should be discouraged for the farce it often is.

There are many people who want this type circle as it makes them believe (or pretend) they are actually doing something they’re not; some are getting genuine messages, but most aren’t. If it suits them then that’s fine for them as it is their path, but I just want those of you born with the gifts and who are developing naturally not to confuse these circles with what we do and are capable of as it is totally different. If you want to see the differences for yourself, sit in an open circle with just anyone and then sit in a closed circle with natural mediums and you’ll immediately see (and feel) the differences are huge.

If done properly and with the right people, circles can be a good exercise and can be of great help with disciplining the mind, but sadly, they are rarely done properly as anyone and everyone can come in and it matters not whether they are mentally unstable or suited as they are all welcomed regardless. Just remember, circles are not for learning whether closed or open. Open circles are not to be taken as anything to do with natural mediums or mediumship. If you do go to any (as most of us do or have at some time), go in the knowledge it is just to sit with people who like spiritual things, but be prepared for all sorts of  ’anything goes’ type behaviour, for strange things to maybe be heard or seen and you won’t be disappointed.

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