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Who Has True Gifts of God?
All of us is the answer to that question. Every single person in this world has been given their very own special gifts from God. It is just so many are blind to what their own are as they’re too busy trying to have another person’s. Try to find your own, listen to what people say to you often as a clue to where your strengths lie and you might find yourself surprised at the results.
Too many people today are desperate to become mediums and I have no idea why or what the huge attraction is. So many classes are filled to the gills with people all handing over their money to ‘learn’ something most of them will never achieve. Instead, they should be embracing their own gifts and looking inside themselves to see what they are in order to use them to help others. At the end of this little prayer are two questions. I’d like you to read them and try to answer them honestly to yourself and see what you come up with.
My Prayer
God help me to love you the way that I ought
Forsaking all others the way I was taught
And give me the strength to live life each day
To face any problems that may come my way.
Please help me be kind, selfless and true
Considering others in all that I do
To share in their sorrow or help ease their pain
Without ever thinking what I’ll have to gain.
Please help me be modest in my thoughts and my deeds
In all that I hope for and all that I need
Don’t let me be selfish, greedy or cruel
But let me help others and know what to do.
Please help me respect and care for the gifts
You created then gave us as You deemed fit
With your love and guidance to show me the way
I hope to improve a little each day.
As it says above, ‘… Please help me respect and care for the gifts You created and gave us as You deemed fit.’ That would indicate we all have different ones so what are really your gifts? The two questions I always ask anyone coming to me are: Why do you want to become a medium and what do you intend doing with it all if you do manage to develop?
The answers to these two questions tells me a lot about the person and the first one is always answered the same way by natural mediums. Everyone else falters on it or answers in a way that tells me all I need to know, whilst most have to think hard about the second question as it makes them ask themselves what it is they intend doing with it. Maybe, just maybe you can listen to your own answers and then sit in the quiet and reflect on what you said. Write it down and look at it. See what it really says and after deep thought and contemplation on what you’ve said ask yourself another question.
Am I really meant to be a medium or are my gifts something entirely different that I’m just not seeing? Ask your friends and family where your strengths lie and ask what they each would answer to the question, ‘Do you think I have any particular special gift and if so what would you say it was?’ You might just be surprised at the answers you receive. Try it and see what happens.
Why Sensitives are Different
This is a copy of a blog post done quite a long time back and some might be familiar with it, but as we talk so much about natural mediums, I thought those who aren’t one, might like to know a tiny bit to help them understand. I first became aware that what I could do was different whilst on the telephone to a friend. After quite a while I said I would have to go as the smell of her bacon was making me feel really hungry. She asked what I meant. “well, you had bacon for breakfast didn’t you”. She was stunned and asked how I could have known that. Impatiently, as though SHE were the daft one, I told her I could smell it. You can imagine what sort of things she said then.
After this episode I still thought she was the one being a bit daft and so I started asking everyone I met “You can smell things down the telephone can’t you?”, I would ask all and sundry. “No” they replied looking at me strangely. That was when I started to question other things in my life. Until then, I thought it was perfectly natural to be able to smell all sorts of things in peculiar ways. I suppose I never really thought about how it happened and just assumed it happened to everyone.
From then on I realised that the way I knew things about people and could appear to see into them was also different. I was rather judgemental about people because I could see things about them and couldn’t understand why no one else could. I can still see into them, but have learnt not to look into eyes too closely now and am able to control it.
A lady I worked with once asked me why I looked people up and down when I first met them. I hadn’t realised I did that. She said I did it very quickly and that most people weren’t aware that I did it to them. (That would include me then!). It became obvious that without realising it, I was “reading” them as they approached me. I had no idea I was doing it. It is due to this very thing with natural mediums, psychics or whatever, that discipline needs to be taught or learnt. I never went anywhere to be taught properly due to the experiences I had at a Spiritualist church. Much as they were very pleasant people, they had a strange way of teaching things. They still believe that everyone can be a medium and I know that if it is to be done properly and safely, that no they can’t.
Because of their ways of teaching, I was being told to say things I hadn’t got. For example I was told that I must always say that the person had come in love and wanted to send their love to who I was reading for. Tosh. Absolute rubbish. Not everyone who comes through is doing so because they come in love or to bring it to that person. If they didn’t like you in life, then they will want to let you recognise them. They will never come with a message you can’t understand. I refuse to give anything I have not been given and I also refuse to keep talking when there is no news to impart.
There are some very genuinely gifted people out there, but there again, there are many who aren’t and are being given certificates to say they have passed various stages. Therefore, a certificate means nothing in my eyes. I refused to say things I wasn’t getting and I also refused to talk about symbols and things being symbolic. That’s the big cop out if something you tell someone isn’t accepted. They are told to say that it must be symbolic then. If you see a train and ask if the person who has died had connections with that and you said no, then they will automatically say “Oh, it must be symbolic then”. They will then try to tell you it means something else you will accept and do everything they can to make it fit.
Anyway, my gifts have been developed naturally. As I needed a lesson, one would be given. I would be very strong in one particular gift and then it would change to another. This carried on until I had experienced many different forms of mediumship. I also did automatic writing which is where one is taken over by another person and given information. The writing I got is nothing at all like mine and I write very quickly and on average 15 foolscap sized pages.
Some is philosophical but much is telling things to occur. The London underground bombing was once such thing and they even said that they were British born which proved to be right. Then there’s earthquakes and all manner of things, but it is all said in a cryptic way which means it is clear after the event but would not give enough to prevent it taking place as it was meant to happen. Some is personal also but I have asked those who work with me to never, ever tell me anything about my immediate family. I just do not wish to know. That said, I don’t mind if they come to me after they have passed and my grandmother is with me very often.
Obviously there is much more to it and this is just a simple outline, but I hope it lets you see a little more of who Sensitives are and what we’re about. You will be able to see more shortly as my new book is due to be published within the next week or so. It is called, Let’s Talk Natural Mediumship and contains various experiences from natural mediums from around the world.
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