How To Know if You’re a Natural Medium
How do you know if you’re a natural or a forced medium?
Natural born mediums, otherwise known as a Sensitives, are people who have all sorts of strange things happening to them throughout their lifetime. Due to it being with us throughout our childhood years into adulthood, we are not always aware no one else experiences the same things we do. Most of it is a very strong psychic ability, but we will also be aware of a presence. We know when someone is standing near us and can ‘feel’ them.
As we get older and suddenly realise we are different, we can become confused as we thought everyone could do it. Then we hear all the man made things in the media and in books that doesn’t resemble anything like our experiences, but when looking for help we go to places we should never have anything to do with are told we must do it their way. We end up with all the man made things being taught for forced mediumship, thereby hindering our development and even pushing it backwards.
A forced medium is someone who has usually never had anything happen to them in their life. They are fascinated by all things to do with this subject matter and might have come to it through friends who are spiritualists, from reading books on the subject, television programmes or any other way. They will undoubtedly have heard everyone can be a medium – well they can’t. Not a natural medium and they can’t possibly expect to reach a level of ability someone born with it naturally can.
Anyone with a natural talent – in all fields of life – will excel over those trying to acquire it eg. musicians, chefs, dancers, actors – the field is endless. Mediumship is no different. That said, there are many bad natural mediums and many good forced ones. Much of it depends on us as people and whether we have the right attributes like humility, a wish to serve rather than be served. To give of ourselves freely to help others, or if we’re in it to make money and so many of the other factors that need to be taken into consideration.
People wishing to learn a talent go to classes. This is what happens with psychics and mediums. They go for awareness then development and intersperse all of this with various workshops and circles. This is done trying to develop and attain an ability most won’t be able to, but delude themselves they have. They are taught this is natural ability and that they are just being shown how to bring it out. Nothing that needs rituals or to be forced in such ways is natural. This form of mediumship shouldn’t be classed as such, because it confuses people needing help, guidance or readings from people with real ability – forced or natural. Some of these will become very good and kind mediums even though not naturally born with it hapening.
It is a very complicated matter and not one easily explained in so few words. Natural mediums are not elitist, egotistical, dangerous or any of the other nasty things said about them by people with no understanding or awareness. People who think all that’s needed is classes, rituals and certificates. For those who would like to learn more about what a natural medium experiences in their life, or for those who think they might be one, I have written a book answering as many questions as I can as sent to me by people from all over the world.
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A reference book that possibly answers all the questions you’ll ever have about natural mediumship and healing as opposed to man made. For anyone born with the gifts and having things happen naturally, this book will help answer many of the questions you’ll have that spiritualist teachings don’t understand or answer. I have been told it has helped taught mediums to have a deeper and better understanding of how spirit works naturally. This has enhanced their ways of working in this field too.
For those of little or no awareness, you will dislike the book immensely (as some spite reviews show), as it doesn’t conform to the more way-out kind of self-made mediumship that accepts anything and everything so long as it makes you lots of money.
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5/5 stars - I bought this very informative book a few weeks ago. If you are wondering whether you have Mediumistic/Healing Abilities then this is the book for you. This is a very good reference book, with honest, accurate information. A little gem for those of you who are about to start your Spiritual journey. A book to treasure,I just wish it had been written/ published when I was embarking on my Spiritual journey, It would have helped me in so many ways. I am so impressed with LHW,that I have nearly all of her books, I can’t recommend them/her enough. she is so down to earth and a very honest lady. Looking forward to the next one…..
Thia
I downloaded this book recently and found it very easy to read. I like the style that it is written in, like speaking to Lorraine face to face. The questions and answers follow naturally and it is easy to understand and to relate to. Although easy to understand the answers are given in some depth and are very informative.
mooncrystal
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Posted on November 14, 2010, in General, Mediumship, Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. 11 Comments.
I am so thankful to find this. THANK YOU Lorraine. I seem to have a broad spectrum of gifts and I have no control. I went to a Clairvoyant who said I was a natural born trance medium, and I could make a living at it. I just wanted to know what was wrong with me because it has been happening for years. I am a 43 year old grandmother. I can not ignore it anymore. These gifts wont leave me alone. Moved to Northern California near the Lost Coast and this gift seems to have gotten stronger. .Lived in Kentucky before that and my gifts were strong too. Its just liked reach a new level I suppose. Going to get your books and perhaps feel less of an outsider. It scares me sometimes and makes me anxious even though its cool, it just does what it wants.
Love it Lorraine! This article reminds me of how I came to finally accept who I really am and where my destiny lies. Mediumship came really natural for me and I had to seek answers to find out why I was experiencing so many things that didn’t make sense to me. I have friends that seek gifts in this work but never fully progress much because life has given them other gifts and talents.
I have been very successful in my regular career and never intended to go the route of mediumship. You just don’t seek it . It seeks you until you accept it.
Why couldn’t she be? To be honest, it could be natural ability or it could be she’s ill, but without knowing her or more than you say I couldn’t possibly tell you. Have you read the book? Reading it may give you some more insight as it is written for that very purpose. You might also like to come and join one of the pages I have just set up on Facebook. Maybe you and others can talk together about it as talking to others in the same situation often helps a lot. It is being so alone in these matters that makes us feel so isolated.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/A-Sceptical-Medium-Lorraine-Holloway-White/502064396471951
and
https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Poppy-Army-Lorraine-Holloway-White/389149514489426
My sister just turned 16 and she thinks she’s a medium.she has an anxiety attack the day before it started…apparently he met another medium and gave her a reading about her dad..says she sees dead people and can hear them..is it possible?.. Nobody in my family believes she is and thinks she’s going legit crazy..so anything I can do to get her out of it? I think she just convinced herself..she can’t really be one can she??…
PS, I’ll join up on facebook as soon as I can! Thanks. Dave
Lorraine, no problem, I had almost finished A Sceptical Medium, when I posted my request! Having finished it, I found the section about about having my story in the book! So if you have no objections I’ll submit my experiences there, to be dealt with, if selected, in the fullness of time? I fully understand that you are busy and will see what happens? If it is meant to happen it will! Hopefully try for an email reading with you, as and when possible, if you ever get all the rest finished? Good luck with the books!
Just starting A Guides guide…. tonight, will fifnish that and then re-read both! Keep up the good work, God bless you and good night. Dave
Hello Dave. I am so sorry, but I haver had to pull back on that just at the moment as I have just written 2 books and one needs editing and the other formatting for publication. Have you read any of my books as most people say they answer most of their questions for them? I’m afraid at the moment, the time it takes to read long e-mails and answer them in depth is out of the question as I’m already working from 7.30 am right through till midnight most nights. I do hope you understand? So sorry xx
Maybe when I have these books sorted? If you would like to join one of my closed and secret groups on Facebook where everyone helps each other, please let me know and I can add you, No one outside of the group can see who is in t or what they say x
Advice needed! I have had various experiences over the past 20 years, which have brought me believe, that Spirit wants me to “work”? I can if you wish, email you with the details of these experiences, but do not want to go into greater detail, here. I hpe this is not wasting your time? Regards, Dave.
im having trouble believing all this but some weird stuff has happened to me for a long time i no im not crazy i event went to a doctor but for the first time i seen a face like looking at a photo i don’t no who he was but felt very calm i did see a red like growth before he came am i crazy
Hi Wanda. The answer is – you don’t do a thing. If you are naturally gifted, it will all happen as naturally as that did. The fact you say something tried to get you to go the other way to work and you didn’t shows you are aware and naturally protected because you are not forcing things. The ones who have problems are those who force trying to become mediums – hence all their weird rituals.
If it’s meant to be, it will happen naturally as and when it is meant to happen – we don’t go around doing it all day every day – that isn’t what it’s for. Come and join us on the group page if you’d like to chat to like-minded people. xx
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I was in a serious accident and had quite a blow to my head. I began feeling different, like people or sometimes bad things were around me. I haven’t spoken much about this to anyone. One day my best friend & I were talking about his Father’s death and I told him that he was his Father’s favorite & that he has tried to contact him but he is too closed off to hear him. His Father passed away about 8 yrs ago. I told him why his Father left the money to everyone the way he did & that his older brother & his Father don’t get along at all. His older brother is very angry about how the money was divided up when his Father passed. That blew his mind away! He said he has had a couple of dreams about him & he is telling him the same thing I did about the money. My friend was in shock because there is no way I could know all that, I was shocked that I even let it out of my mouth! He said he thinks his Father was speaking through me. I don’t know….I feel & sense things that other people don’t & I don’t talk about it. I can feel things about people just by looking at them, it’s hard to explain. I can tell when there are spirits around, I can feel them. I have felt bad/angry spirits & once I felt something really evil and it tried for a couple of months to get me, to join Satan’s side if that makes any sense! Anyway, what do I do now?? Please advise.